This week has already been 10 fold better than last. There was a moment when Dude was being a bit naughty, but he was being silly and knew when he had pushed it to far. And I'm glad that he snapped out of it.
I was thinking about it and why the whole thing upset me so much... and I think the reasoning is I wonder if I'm doing a good job parenting. I wonder if my methods of discipline, explaining why it's important to listen and the all around respect that is what is going to make this dynamic work. I know that he's a bright boy and understands when we explain things, but I guess I second guess myself when he is so naughty for so long.
I think I am doing a fairly good job, and being fair to him in punishment and discipline. Already we have found out that spanking doesn't do jack, but taking pals or toys is serious business. It's interesting to see what works on some children and what doesn't.
So, I just wake up every morning and try to put my best foot forward and hope I don't screw things up to much. :)
JVG
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