My sister and her kids just got done with their two week visit. I am always so excited to see my sister because I miss her and we've never been this far apart before... but her kids... oh her kids...
Now, I realize that their situation has been less than ideal and that they have been sheltered their entire life, but one thing I can't stand is ignorance and not even wanting to try to understand the world around you. That you are so unaware and self-absorbed that you don't even care that there is a world bigger than yours.
My sister's 2nd child is the worst at this. We had gone up there on Saturday because of our routine, and my sister and her husband had gone to a wedding and my mom was watching all 4 of their kids. During dinner Eli was saying something wasn't fair (I can't remember if it was because he had to wait for dessert or didn't get the piece of pizza he wanted... regardless...) and Gaetan told him that he should be grateful that life isn't fair. First of all Eli had no idea what he was talking about, so then they gave him an example. Something simple like running water. Is it fair that we can just go to the water faucet and turn it on, get clean fresh water, while others have to walk miles and miles to get dirty water? He said no, but then he said he didn't think it would be to bad to have to walk miles to get water. And that he didn't understand why they just didn't live by their water source because that would make it easier. Upon further explanation of because during the rainy season it floods and otherwise there are predators like crocodiles that will eat you, is why they don't gave that luxury. He just went on and on about how he could fix their problem and that he could do it no problem.
Gaetan was just getting irritated by his unwillingness to try and understand. So, after dinner we were all playing outside and Eli was still going on and on about how he didn't think it would be that bad and that he could do it, so Gaetan filled up a 2 gallon bucket with water and told him that he had to walk around with it to simulate having to walk for his water. He smiled and said, No problem! Well, they mapped out this little route, back and forth and Gaetan told him he had to do it about 50 times to recreate the 5 mile walk the people in Rwanda (where we have been campaigning for clean water) have to do at least. He made it 3 times and was sorry that he was such a jerk about it. After the first time he was already out of breath and wanting to quit.
Gaetan pointed out that most of the people have to walk there first, then walk back with the water, so really he was getting off easy. I think he made his point. I guess the whole thing is that he doesn't understand that the world is a big place and that there are lots of things going on in it. My hope for our children is that they are aware and when things don't seem right to them to try and do something about it. A terrible stereotype about Americans is they don't care about what is going on in the world around them, and I don't want our kids to fall into that category. There are so many things going on around us, we would be fools to not take notice.
JVG