The
physics department, the honors ceremony and my friends' wedding all
happened in the same week. It was crazy busy! Since I was a
bridesmaid in her wedding that meant that we were there for the
rehearsal dinner and I was there at the butt crack of dawn on the
actual day. For the rehearsal my parents watched the kiddos so that
we could go (that's right, two nights that week we went out kidless!)
and it was really good to catch up with friends. The rest of the
girls from the quintet I played in, KABAJ, were in the wedding as
well, so we got to hang with them! I don't know what it was but I
couldn't keep my crap together during the rehearsal. I was a hot
mess. I was honestly a little worried about it since this was just
the rehearsal and not the actual day... but the tears they were
a-flowing! I felt a little better because the other girls were a bit
weepy too... I'm thinking it was a combination of things for me.
That week was a lot of planning and being organized and then, of
course, watching a childhood friend marry the love of their life is
always a bit of a tear jerker.
The
next morning came early! The wedding wasn't until 1 in the afternoon
but she wanted us there at 8:30 for hair and make-up. Since I got my
hair cut earlier that week mine was going to be simple and it was
something that I could do. The make-up was a little nerve wrecking
but I had a little bit of practice earlier that week during G's
honors ceremony. The only time I had gotten all done up was when
Jane did it and I wasn't sure I was going to be able to replicate,
but I got my falsies on and everything and I think I did pretty well.
I'm not gonna lie I was getting pretty tired by the time the
wedding rolled around because we did a few pictures beforehand and as
comfy as my shoes were they were getting a little sore already.
The
ceremony went wonderfully. Nothing weird happened and I kept
everything together! :) This wedding was a little extra special
because I grew up with the groom, like I remember playing together in
preschool, and the bride has been in my life since middle school! A
lot of things coming together in the name of love and it's beautiful.
It was also really nice to see the other girls and their significant
others as well... just kinda made everything feel right.
The
reception was a blast! It wasn't a typical reception but I would
take this one over typical any day. It was at the Grand Rapids
Brewing Co downtown. We got drink vouchers which was really nice of
the bride and groom and their food selection was great! The bride,
Katie, is a vegetarian so I was interested to see what food she
picked. They had a mac n cheese bar which was amazing and excellent
finger foods to go along with the beverages that you could get there.
Our bass player showed up and it was a wonderful reunion of
everyone.
Since
the wedding was so early the reception was actually done by 7/8. I
was ready to go home by then because I hadn't seen the kids all day!
The crazies woke up in time to ride in the car with us to drop me at
the church but I hadn't seen Norah yet. It was also fabulous being
able to spend all the time with the husband all by myself. :)
Congrats
to you Katie and Bram. May marriage rock as much for you, as it does
for us. Blessings my friends!
JVG
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